Wednesday, November 21, 2018

Between Lesser Evil and Greater Evil


The history of humans seems to be moving from a 'default good' towards a 'default evil'. Good pervaded the face of the earth in the beginning. In every movement, good was sown and reaped. The war was between a lesser good and a greater good, moving from good to the best. Each and every act was an act of goodness. But with dawn of the fall, the perennial war between good and evil began. The good still had a big say. Persons who chose good were exalted, considered as exemplary, were looked up to. Good had a home to peacefully rest, a street to walk without disturbance, a work place to earn a living, a common place to chit chat, a voice to express freely and forcefully and had a place of worship to thank its source. The important fact was that those who chose evil had a hope of returning back to good. But I am afraid, good is no more in the vicinity.

It seems that we are stepping into the kingdom of evil. Today it is evil that pervades the face of the earth and it's between a lesser evil and a greater evil. The alarming reality is the choices that are available are between evils, lesser and greater. This can be vividly noticed in the choices that are in front of us. The most politicians, who supposed to lead the nation, have criminal background; the government, which supposed to serve the people, intern is served by them; teachers, who supposed to form the students, have behavioural deviations; doctors, who supposed to save life, trade it; lawyers, who supposed to bring justice, sell it and the list goes on. And it has culminated in the norm 'fair is foul and foul is fair'.

The greater alarm is that the religious life is not exempted from this reality. Unfortunately, the choice before them is also between lesser and greater evil. Evil has silently made a dominant way into the religious communities. We make promises and end up against them; the dreams that enthused to follow religious life are shattered completely; there is a u-turn in our spiritual journey; the progress has become a de-progress. The so-called missionaries of good, who supposed to be the ambassadors of good, are mere spectators on the choices. Voiceless, often times, they are satisfied with the lesser evil.

So, where do we find good today? Behind the bars? In a rally, being violated? A community of being has culminated in individual being, disconnected by the other, I mean neighbours and nature. Anonymity has alienated the other of oneself. The autonomous subject has forgotten to be hospitable to the next. The disconnectivity, anonymity, individualism has lead us to nihilism, a belief in nothing, which makes evil penetrate into our life easily. Where is the choice between good and evil?

I am reminded of a river, which was still and easy to swim around. The river had a mild current and we happily swam across and found no difficulty in swimming against. Alas! The current became forceful day by day and we were not cautious. Now faced with flood, we have lost the sight of the stilled river. Still there is a ray of hope, before a tsunami destroys us completely let us wake up. Before we perish with omnipotent evil let us initiate a hope to good!

It is the poverty of goodness.

Hurt me with truth, but do not comfort me with lies!

A reply from Mukesh Ambani (Reliance Group) to a pretty girl seeking a rich husband


I’m going to be honest of what I’m going to say here.
I’m 25 this year. I’m very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with 100 crore annual salary or above.
You might say that I’m greedy, but an annual salary 2 crore is considered only as middle class now days..
My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of 100 crore annual salary? Are you all married?
I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you?
Among those I’ve dated, the richest is 50 crore annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit.
If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden(?), 50 crore annual income is not enough.
I’m here humbly to ask a few questions:
1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)
2) Which age group should I target?
3) Why most wives of the riches are only average-looking? I’ve met a few girls who don’t have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.
4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)
Ms. Pooja I Chohan.
Dear Ms. Pooja,
I ( Mukesh Ambani ) have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor.
My annual income is more than 100 crore, which meets your requirement, so I ( Mukesh Ambani ) hope everyone believes that I’m not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain.
Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money” : Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.

However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year.
Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I ( Mukesh Ambani )am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It’s not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later.
By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a “trading position”.
If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term – same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or “leased”.
Anyone with over 100 crore annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I ( Mukesh Ambani ) would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with 100 crore annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool.
Hope this reply helps.
signed,
Mukesh Ambani

Tuesday, November 20, 2018

The Fish Love by Rabbi Dr. Abraham Twerski


"Young man, why are you eating the fish?"
The young man says, "because I love fish."
He says, "Oh, you love the fish! That's why you took it out of the water
and killed it and boiled it."
He says, " Don't tell me you love the fish. You love yourself, and because the fish tastes good to you, therefore, you took it out of the water and killed it and boiled it."

So much of what is love is fish love. And so young couple falls in love. Young man and young woman fall in love. What does that mean? That means that he saw in this woman someone he felt could provide him with all of his physical and emotional needs and she felt in this man somebody she feels that she can write that was love, but each one is looking out for their own needs. It's not love for the other. The other person becomes a vehicle for my gratification. Too much of what is called love, is fish love. An external love. It is not on what I am going to get, but I am going to give. We had in ethicist rabbi Dessler who said, "The people make a serious mistake, in thinking that you give to those whom you love and the answer is, the real answer is you love those to whom you give." His point is if I give something to you, I've invested myself in you. Since self-love is a given, everybody loves themselves, now that part of me become in you, there's part of me in you that I love. So true love is a love of giving, not a love of receiving.

Tuesday, October 30, 2018

Tamil Typing on Windows Computer via Transliteration Google Keyboard (for now the support does not exist if you had removed by mistake!) - கூகிள் தமிழ் தட்டச்சு செய்ய: 1. Click and install GoogleInput Tools, 2. Click and install Google Tamil Input. After install tap on Win+Space bar to change language input! #Tamil Typing 👍

Tamil Typing on Windows Computer via Transliteration Google Keyboard (for now the support does not exist if you had removed by mistake!) - கூகிள் தமிழ் தட்டச்சு செய்ய: 1. Click and install GoogleInput Tools, 2. Click and install Google Tamil Input. After install tap on Win+Space bar to change language input! #Tamil Typing 👍 Take the files from the following link!
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